Tuesday, July 30, 2013



The thought of taking our concern and turning it outwards, as opposed to having all of our concern be self-centered allows us to be more giving and envelops a warm feeling inside of ourselves.  The thought of putting others before myself is not difficult for me at this time in my life, I have two children girls one is four and the other three weeks, and being a parent, especially a mother to a newborn, you must put their own needs and wants before your own.  Taking the time to actually think about this process opens you up to understanding how much we can actually give to others when we allow ourselves to be completely given to others. 
            I believe that the experience of making the act of being kind and giving to others and putting their needs above your own is an eye opening experience, it teaches you what love is all about I think that this is something that every person should try.  If everyone on this planet thought of others happiness before their own there would be less hatred, crime, and the idea of war may not even exist.  I would recommend this idea to everyone.  Each person should try implementing this experience into their lives and look at the things that they do as “How do my actions make others feel?”.  If just for a day everyone could see how they affect others and actually care about those effects many things would be different in the world. 
The mental workouts that we are undergoing are like exercises for the mind they allow us to take the time to practice and understand different ways of thinking.  The time spent trying to understand the purpose of these activities allows our minds to grow into the ideas that the exercises are trying to project.  Mental workouts foster psychological health because they allow the mind to be opened up to new ideas and practices which can have profound effects on the way we see the world.   

Monday, July 22, 2013

On  scale of 1-10 I rate my well being a 5 for physical, a 7 for spiritual and a 7 for psychological.  I rated myself a 5 for physical because i just had a baby two weeks ago and I am still in the healing process.  as for spiritual, i do not consider my self very spiritual, however i am okay with that and part of spirituality to me is being content with what you have in life including beliefs. Lastly I rated myself a 7 in the psychological category because I am dealing with the changes of having a new baby and it is emotionally taxing along with physically taxing,
My physical goal is to loose the baby weight, my spiritual goal is to be content with what i have, and my psychological goal is to not stress over the small stuff in life.
I plan on walking with Sofia to help to regain my physical health along with yoga to rubuild my core strength.  For the spiritual and psychological well being i am going to make a point of making time for myself and letting daddy watch the girls. 


As I began the relaxation exercise I had a hard time concentrating on the exercise.  Sitting and listening to exercises like these are not beneficial to me because I do get frustrated.  I find that the time I spend doing these sorts of exercises is wasted and find myself counting the minuets and watching the clock for when the exercise will be finished.  Because of this I have a hard time concentrating on activates like this